Transform Your Dating & Sex Life

Ready to break old relationship habits? Get expert coaching from Kristen Thomas with Open the Doors Coaching. Gain confidence, overcome obstacles, and achieve your goals ato transform your dating and sex life. Whether it’s optimizing dating apps, understanding sexual anatomy, addressing sexual issues, navigating post-marriage dating, or exploring your sexuality or gender identity, Kristen provides personalized education and support.

Learning to trust others, allowing yourself to be vulnerable, or even being willing to put yourself back into the dating world is overwhelming for many because they don’t know where to start. Coaching can help support you in developing a plan to shake what’s holding you back. 

Boost your self-esteem, improve your dating skills, and “get your sexy back” with a collaborative approach. Discover a fulfilling and empowered dating and sex life.

I am here to support singles in a variety of situations:

Using dating apps and websites to find the caliber of partner you want in life. I will review which sites you utilize, and what your profile says about you. I will offer suggestions to help you attract better matches.

Not sure you know what you’re doing…in bed? Some people don’t understand sexual anatomy. Thanks, abstinence-only sex ed! There is no shame in not understanding how our bodies work, or what you really find pleasurable. Sexology 101 can help clients who have struggled with the basics.

Held back by what something? Issues such as vaginismus, early ejaculation, and low libido that can affect your quality and quality of sex. Sexual issues have solutions, and working with a coach can help you find your way to a healthy and flourishing sex life.

Tired of being ghosted? How many times have you been on a great first date, only to never hear from them again? I can observe what type of impression you make, discuss what your body language says, and practice how to have deeper conversations so that the first date doesn’t become the last.

Getting back into the dating world after the end of a marriage or the loss of a partner is a lot to take in. People who have been in a long-term relationship for at least 10 years have no idea how much dating has been altered in our modern age. Sometimes there is prep work that needs to be done. I call it “getting your sexy back”, and that can involve a lot depending on where the client is at. A sex coach like me can help you focus on yourself, and support you every step of the way in getting that sexy back! Guy, gal, gay, or they – doesn’t matter. We all want to feel good in our own skin before we get back out there again. 

Questioning your sexuality or gender? Sexual expression and attraction truly are like a spectrum. There is no black or white anymore. If you have questions about yourself, let’s discuss your thoughts and fears, set goals, and find support systems or community resources that will allow you to live as your ideal self. 

Ready to schedule a session with Kristen? Take a look at her calendar. Take a look at her About page if you have more questions.