These services are for individuals that are interested in something perhaps bolder in their sex life. Some call it non-vanilla. Some call it kink. Call it what you like, but I won’t use the terms “norm” or “normal”, as that isn’t how I describe sexual expression or desire between adults. So long as there is consent and communication between all involved parties, all is fair game. 

Not all couples believe in life-long monogamy. Not all couples enjoy vanilla sex. Not all couples are cis-gendered and straight. I support clients who are interested in:

Bondage, discipline, domination, submission, sadomasochism. Erotic power exchanges is what they are. Some couples have one partner who is experienced and desires trying BDSM, but one partner isn’t certain if they are down. Other couples have only allowed this in their fantasy lives. I can coach you through apprehension and find a way to vocalize to your partner what your comfort levels are, and help you discover what you’re into.  Even individuals may want to find a dominatrix or club to enter into exploration completely on their own. I can help you find trusted contacts or facilitate an introduction.

Swinging, open relationship, polyamory, ethical non-monogamy. Whatever you practice, or are wanting to learn more about, a sex coach can help you explore, remove stigma, and gain self-acceptance. Setting clear boundaries after exploring where those boundaries lie with a coach present can elicit expressions of desire that will help you more clearly see what choices are right for you as a couple. Remember, you get the write the rules together in your relationship. No longer are we bound by rigid societal expectations as we were in the past. There is much more freedom and acceptance of non-monogamy, there are resources, there are support groups, there are clubs, there are MeetUps, and so much more for those in the lifestyle than you can imagine if you’re just getting into the idea. 

Cross-dressing, transvestite, and transgender clients may need support with how to come out to their loved ones and social circle. If you think you might be into cross-dressing, transvestism, are transgender, or are gender non-binary, I want to support you as you begin exploring those worlds. Talking to someone that is not going to judge your life, and will help you find support systems within your community is essential. As a coach, I can do things a therapist can’t. For instance, let’s go shopping together as you find a way to express yourself with your own unique style that affirms your gender identity. Attending support groups for LGBTQ together would be my pleasure, or let me connect you to a non-profit or support group that will help you if you aren’t safe doing these things. We can even go out together to a networking event to build your confidence in shaking someone’s hand and using your preferred name and pronoun. Whatever you may want or need to feel more comfortable in your identity, I’m here to help.